This has been covered in so many discussions. I realize you've searched the forum, but I can't think of anything to add to that hasn't already been said. I think it's more likely you haven't found all the pertinent threads yet. I know it sucks going through this (most of us have been there). If you haven't already, read this thread and follow the links in my posts:
http://www.toyotavantech.com/forum/s...ng-Head-Gasket
Up until recently I've only had one van that I couldn't get a hot running issue resolved. Typically once you have the radiator professionally serviced, replace the t-stat (with genuine Toyota), test/replaced the clutch fan, there's not much else. Regarding the van that gave me endless grief, I finally did get to the bottom of the issue. Previous owner(s) had badly neglected that van and as a result it had lots of sediments/rust in the water jacket of the block. Here's a link to the thread I made when I discovered the issue:
http://www.toyotavantech.com/forum/s...ngine-Overhaul. Check out the pics at the bottom of my 1st post. I'm hoping that's not the case with yours (because cleaning this out would almost require you to do what I did in that thread). If you end up removing the head, at least you could inspect from the top and poke a hanger or something down the block to verify it's not stuffed full of crap like mine was. If you end up doing what I did, I'm pretty sure you'd not regret it. I love that van now. Running awesome and it never gets hot. Other than a pesky re-occurring fuel contamination issue it's been great. As to the fuel problem, I believe that's been fixed too since I haven't had any more issues over the last 10k miles. Tim