Thank you Qasual, I will not be re-using any gaskets-I just wanted to show how well the toyota ones are made, although I don't know too much about gaskets to begin with.
Thanks Timsrv for the info and I'm not too bummed because I have the bosch style(square ones) injectors and it seems they really are everywhere. Pretty sure they're called the EV1 style and I've found the connectors new on ebay, 6 for about 20bucks. The question is, do I get used in good condition from the junk yard(5$)- or new, possibly aftermarket ones from ebay? I'll also be sending my injectors to washington to have them cleaned and tested-why not when I'll be doing all this other stuff anyway.

thanks folks for your help, aaron.